Man Calls Police on Fiancé For Not Returning Home, We Suspect Cheating

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    Font - AITA for calling the police on my fiance? Not the A-hole Last night my (35M) Fiance (38F) left in the evening to give a friend's son a ride back to his home. She implied she'd be home before 9. She left at around 7:45. 10:15 rolled around and she still wasn't home. I texted and she apologized to me, saying that her friend's son was actually in the next town over (maybe 30 minutes away) and she was coming home now.
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    Font - 11:45 rolled around and she still hadn't come home, so I called her to no answer. Texted her to no response. I was getting very upset 12.30 rolled around and still no response and no answer to my phone calls. I was extremely angry. 1:30 rolled around and my anger had completely transformed into worry. Not answering my calls and texts not read.
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    Font - Around 1:45 I called the police. I have always heard that the first 24 hours of someone being missing is the most important, so I didnt want to delay. I asked them to let me know if there had been any traffic accidents involving her car, and the operator told me that they would put out the word and send some cops to check along the route she would travel. I called all the hospitals in the area to check if she has been checked in and I waited outside watching the road for her car for three
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    Font - At 7:00am she came home. She apologized for being out and said she had no excuse. She was driving home and felt tired like she was falling asleep at the wheel, so she pulled over to the side of the road to sleep. When she did that, she found that her brand new phone had stopped working. She says she napped anyway because it was the responsible thing to do, and then came home at 7am to bring the kids to school and get to work on time. I immediately called the police and told them that she
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    Font - My fjance brought the kids to school and left for work. I set out to start cleaning (cleaning destresses me sometimes), and I got a call from a policeman asking where she worked. I told him, and asked why, and I was informed that it was their policy to check on the person's wellness after a missing person is found. I asked them to not go by her work but to give her a call instead. He said he couldn't promise.
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    Font - My fiance is relatively new to her job. A police officer showed up and asked to speak with her. She is now enraged at me for calling the police and 'sending a cop to her work and making her look bad. She is saying I overreacted and that she wasn't missing and that I was punishing her for doing the responsible thing and not driving while drowsy. She is saying that she is never going to leave the house again except for work, because she is afraid I'm going to call the cops on her again. So
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    Font - Kezibythelake - 20 hr. ago 2 2 Partsipant [2] NTA...but you know she's lying, right? 46.6k B Reply Share
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    Font - Rnevermore OP · 20 hr. ago I do suspect that the story isn't truthful, but she doesn't really have a history of lying to me, so I've been trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. 16.9k Reply Share
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    Font - Cynthia Castillo677. 19 hr. ago edited 16 hr. ago 3 & 36 More hole Aficionado [11] Uh no, her whole story is a big fat lie. She told you she would be home by 9, but somehow was wrong about where the kid lived? Did she not know the town beforehand? Did she just start driving 30 mins and then the kid goes "oh no wait, I actually live in XYZ, not XXX!" That part of the story doesn't even make any sense.
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    Font - So she ended up changing the time Then she "got tired" and pulled over and napped on the side of the road? You do realize that if police were looking for her on roads where she claimed she would be, and she was napping in her car on said road, they would have found her, right?
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    Font - and then her NEW phone just happened to not be working? Despite the fact that that simply does not happen, and even if it wasn't working PROPERLY, she still could have called 911 That's not even mentioning the fact that I don't know a single woman, myself included, who would pull over on the side of the road and sleep IN HER CAR WITH NO PHONE.
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    Font - Monster-Death-Truck 19 hr. ago Especially the timing- who sleeps from midnight to 7 AM in the car on the side of the road?? A woman too? Not a two hour power nap, but all night? And she came back conveniently in time to pick up kids and go to work. 19.2k Reply
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    Font - Deep Breath- 18 hr. ago And for her to tell her husband not to call the cops unless she was missing for TWO DAYS. Uhm, what? If I go missing please call the police asap. I need help. This woman was with another man all night and we all know it! 1.6k Reply
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    Font - sagerideout 17 hr. ago If police notice a car on the side of the road for an extended amount of time, they'll check on it, even if it's just to give a ticket or notice to move. They'll especially stop if a worried husband calls and they're searching the route for that make and model. None of this adds up. 513 Reply Share
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    Font - Pleasant-Net5413 19 hr. ago Not to mention.....couldn't she have called and asked for him to come get her if she was tired?? 375 Reply Share apri08101989 16 hr. ago No silly, her phone "wasn't working" 203 Reply Share
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    Font - sethra007 19 hr. ago she doesn't really have a history of lying to me Well, she doesn't have a history of being caught lying to you. Reply Share 5.9k
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    Font - MbMinx 18 hr. ago hole Aficionado [19] You said in another comment that this isn't the first time she's been gone longer than the errand would take. You're being conditioned to not ask questions, and to accept whatever answer she feeds you. Good liars do this. Good liars don't start with the big lie. They start small, and when you believe that, they build on it. And if you do ask questions, they treat you as if you are the unreasonable person. They question your questioning. Your fiance i
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    Font - Greyeyedqueen7. 17 hr. ago This is what my ex did. He cheated on me for years with multiple partners, and he trained me to never question it and that it was always work. 375 Reply Share

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